The evidence gate

What gets refused, and why there is no charge when the refusal is total.

One of your five says you are hard to reach when something is wrong. The other four say nothing like it. A personality product would print that sentence, because it is specific, it is a little uncomfortable, and it reads as insight.

We drop it. Not because it is wrong, but because with one source we cannot tell whether we have learned something about you or something about them.

What the evidence gate refuses and what it lets throughEverything the five people said arrives at a single gate. Four kinds of material are refused: a claim only one person made, a claim resting on a single episode, anything hostile, and anything too thin to be specific. Three kinds pass: a claim two or more people made separately, a claim seen on two occasions, and a claim specific enough to be checked. Refused material is dropped rather than softened.ARRIVESEverythingthey saidfive people, separatelyTHEGATEgate.tsREFUSEDsaid by one person onlyone episode, no second sightinghostile or retaliatorytoo thin to be specificPASSEStwo or more people, separatelyseen on two occasionsspecific enough to checkWrittenup
  1. IN

    Everything they said

    five people, answering separately

  2. X1

    Refused

    said by one person only

  3. X2

    Refused

    one episode, no second sighting

  4. X3

    Refused

    hostile or retaliatory

  5. X4

    Refused

    too thin to be specific

  6. P1

    Passes

    two or more people, separately

  7. P2

    Passes

    seen on two occasions

  8. P3

    Passes

    specific enough to check

Everything your five said arrives at one gate. It is a filter, not a scorer: material either clears it or it is dropped, and dropped material is never softened into a hedge.

One person is not evidence

A claim supported by a single answer is dropped before it reaches anything you read. It is not softened into a hedge and it is not printed with a caveat. A hedged claim is still a claim, and the reader remembers it without the hedge.

The reason is not caution. Two people who know you in different settings, arriving at the same observation without talking to each other, have told you something a single person cannot. One person describing your behaviour has described one relationship, and the person on the other side of it is them.

What gets counted

Not opinions. Episodes. An answer that says a friend is thoughtful contributes nothing; an answer describing what they did the week somebody was in hospital is an episode, and episodes are what the reading is built from.

There is a floor on the whole set. Fewer than five people finishing, or fewer than two real episodes across all of them, and the gate does not open. Those numbers are low on purpose. They are a floor rather than a target, and clearing them is not an achievement worth advertising.

Nothing may be filled in

If nobody said anything about a part of the picture, that part stays empty. We do not complete it from the pattern, and we do not complete it from your own answers in a different grammar.

This is the most tempting rule to break, because an empty section looks like a product defect and a filled one looks like insight. The filled one would be a sentence about a typical person wearing your name, which is the Barnum move this whole category runs on.

The filled one would be a sentence about a typical person wearing your name, which is the Barnum move this whole category runs on.

A Portrait that only flatters is a failed Portrait

The gate requires at least one finding that does not affirm you. A tradeoff, a silence, something being read differently from how you intended it, or a real gap between your account and theirs.

Meeting every evidence rule and saying only pleasant things is its own failure, and it is the one this category never names. Praise is agreed with rather than checked, so a Portrait that is entirely agreeable has proven nothing about whether it is accurate.

Their words stay theirs

You never see a sentence one of your five wrote. Not quoted, not anonymised, not paraphrased closely enough to identify the author.

One exception exists and it is narrow: a single common word supplied independently by three or more of them can appear as that word. Three people separately reaching for the word steady is itself the finding, and one word cannot be traced back to a speaker. What your five are told sets out the promise from their side.

If it does not clear, there is no charge

The check that decides whether a Portrait may be released is the same check that decides whether it may be charged for. One boolean, read twice. They cannot disagree, because there is nothing to disagree with.

When the gate does not open you get the honest partial: what did clear, free, with the missing parts named as missing. That outcome is worse for us than a paid Portrait. Building it the other way round is not something we would have been willing to describe on a page like this.

The floors above are the current ones. If they move, this page moves with them in the same change. A page describing a previous version of the gate would be worse than no page at all.

The part this page cannot do

A gate is a promise about what we will refuse to say. It is not evidence, and this page contains none about you.

The only thing that turns any of this into a finding is five people answering separately about one person. Until that happens there is nothing to gate.

Start the interview

It takes about fifteen minutes and it is free. The $29 Portrait is only charged after five people finish and the evidence clears.